A tribute to Andy

Where to begin? This week has been a blur for our family, because on Sunday afternoon we received devastating news that Rhett's dad, Andy, had suddenly passed away.

 

Never in a million years did we expect this call, and to say Andy's passing took us by surprise is an understatement. Andy is our patriarch, mentor, and a giant among men. He believed in being honest, hard-working and always doing your best. There aren't many people like Andy around, and it breaks my heart to realize that our kids will have to grow up without such a wonderful, wise grandfather.

I've found peace (and tears) this week as I've gone through the many photos and prepared the video for the funeral. Here are a few of my favorites.

Kailee and Andy

One of my favorites of Zack with Andy at the ballpark

Andy taking Zack and Josh out on their first boat ride

Ellie and grandpa last year

I can still hear his voice--the low calm tone on the other end of the phone saying, "Hi, Lori." when I answered--and I hope I never forget what it sounds like. I'll miss his big hugs, and I'll miss our conversations at the dinner table when he visited, but most of all I'll miss grandpa Andy. I know my kids will too.

As I type this at 2:30 am on the morning of his funeral (after watching the video multiple times and filling up buckets with tears), I hope he knows how much we loved him. Because I know that Rhett and I will remind our kids every day how much he loved them. We love you, Andy. Until we meet again.

Comments

[Brittany B.]

Thinking of you today, Lori. I'm sure the slideshow was a perfect tribute.

[Marlene Anderson]

The DVD was wonderful. We didn't have time to watch it at the funeral, so thank you for the copy. It was the first thing we did when we got home from the airport, the kids are all looking forward to seeing it. Love your blog, I will be checking it often.
Aunt Marlene

[cindy tobey]

I'm so sorry for your loss Lori.

[Lori]

Brittany and Cindy, thank you so much for your sweet comments. We're making it through--snuggling close with our kids and sharing great memories.